Being selected as best man is a great honor, which comes with a big responsibility – yes, you’ll also be giving a speech. If want to put together a really good best man’s speech, and you’re having trouble coming up with your own words, try adapting something from any the great resources listed below this article. Also, a book that has received very good reviews and comes highly recommended, is “Don’t Burn Your Toast: THE Guide to an Unforgettable Wedding Speech“
When reviewing the selection of best man speeches, remember to keep in mind the happy couple, their friends and their families. Your goal is to assist them in starting their new life on the right foot, without you being the center of attention. And giving a speech that people remember for years after the wedding for the wrong reasons, may not be a good thing.
Sample speeches
- Thanks to all of you for coming today and sharing this special occasion with Janine and Bob. Bob and I have been friends for years and I am so happy to see him marry such a wonderful woman. Ever since Bob met Janine, I’ve never seen one without the other. Their love for each other has only grown stronger even during tough times. Thank you, Bob, for being such a good friend. I wish you and Janine the best of everything as you share long and happy lives. Cheers!
- Now it is my great honor and privilege to make the first toast to Harrison and Libby as husband and wife. While some people know that Harrison and I went to high school and college together, few are aware that we first met while playing Little League baseball in grade school. Arnold played for the Glendale and I played for their arch rival, the Chuck Stapleton. I was pitching during the final game of the season when Harrison hit a grand slam home run. He ran the bases like he was possessed by a demon, scoring the winning run, and crushing my ego for years.While that embarrassment was temporary, the positive impression Harrison made on me later as a classmate, teammate, roommate and friend will last forever. Harrison has always been there for me. He is honest, caring, thoughtful and an all-round great guy. You know, if I was a woman, we’d be the ones getting married today! Though seriously, I think he’s made a much better choice in Libby. Let us toast the wonderful couple, and wish them a long life together filled with love, happiness and laughter. May their joys be many and their sadness’s few. Congratulations!
- After 25 years of brotherly rivalry, you can see that my brother Jimmy has finally figured out who the best man really is. Today, I’d like to wish Jimmy and Jenny all the best, now and forever. As you share the wonders of life together, always love each other, respect each other and be there for each other. Remember to say “I’m sorry” when you stuff things up, and definitely never go to bed angry. Separately, you’re both totally wonderful people, but together you take life to a new level. I truly love you both. Congratulations!
Short and sweet speeches
Even with the help of the best man speech resources we’ve provided, you may be still be nervous about speaking in front of a crowd. No problem, simply have a read of the ‘short and sweet’ best man mini speeches in the list below. The words may just give you something to frame your own personalized speech, which may help you conquer your stage fright, because… you’ll be done almost as soon as you start! (Now you’re smiling)
- Today we celebrate all the good things you have found in each other, a best friend, a lover, a teacher, a playmate and a true partner in life. Cheers!
- If things get tough, remember how happy you were today and see each other always in this warm glow of joy. Best wishes to Roland and Julie!
- If you can find the humor in whatever happens to you, your lives will be full of joy. Congratulations!
- As you go through life, remember that being together makes it all worthwhile. I wish you the best.
- To love, laughter and a happyness ever after!
- May your kitchen always be filled with your favorite food and drink, and your bedroom with the warmth of your embraces.
- May your love and friendship grow every day you are together.
- May your lives overflow with love, health and wealth, and may you have the time and wisdom to enjoy them all.
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